Monday, September 29, 2008

VeRy BuSy WeEk!

Hi peeps I'm so sorry I haven't posted much this past few weeks... I have been very busy doing my documentary about illegal fishing in Davao Gulf. But it's worth it because I won the film documentary competition and it will be aired soon on tv (GMA 7). I will upload it here for you to be able to have a glimpse of it. Miss you guys...

Sunday, September 28, 2008

A Taggy From Jeffy!

We need Friends for many reasons,

all throughout the season.

We need Friends to comfort us when we are sad,

and to have fun with us when we are glad.

We need Friends to give us good advice,

We need someone we can count on,

and treat us nice.

We need Friends to remember us

one we have passed sharing memories

that will always last.

Spread the Poem of Friendship. 1. Everyday Life 2. Words of Love 3. Sheng's Simple Thoughts . . . 4. good thoughts, good trades 5. Ours and Our Kids 6. Jengspeaks 7. Jacque 8. Snippets of My Mind 9.Melisse's Domain 10.Seize The Day 11. Living A' La Mode 12. Simple Delights 13. Motherhood in a Nutshell 14. RainCindy's Blogging Time 15. General Santos City 16. About Love and Relationship 17. KUMAGCOW - The Goodlooking Guy on His Journey : ) 17. Life As Experienced Daily

I'm passing this on to Fernie, Miah, Coicoi

Sunday, September 21, 2008

ThE FiLm WoRlD!

Hi peeps! The fourth "Mindanao Film Festival" is up! Guerrilla Filmmaking Workshop will be held every weekends of October. Come and join the filmmaking world! Learn about Story Development, Conematography, Screenwriting, Producing, Directing and Editing. For more inquiries kindly please visit : MINDANAO FILM FESTIVAL (website designed by coicoi)

Poster layout and design by coicoi
SeE YaH!

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

CaUgHt In ThE SuN

Caught in the Sun - Course of Nature

You're my distanced destination of choice
I'd give anything just to hear your voice
I couldn't pass you on the street
Without saying a word
Most times I missed the voice
That goes unheard

What if I missed you
You got caught in the sun
What if I did something
Never to be enough

People everywhere how could I be sure
Is it you that I have been looking for
What would it take for me to be comfortable
With you, with me you're the chosen one

What if I missed you
You got caught in the sun
What if I did something
Never to be enough

You are there for me this I hope and pray
You will wait for me, I wont be to late

What if I missed you
You got caught in the sun
What if I did something
Never to be enough

Will you wait for me
Or will I be to late this time
You are there for me this I hope and pray


This day we will be celebrating Takayuki's 1st Birthday Bash. Takayuki is half Filipino half Japanese. Here's a share of Talayuki's pictures hehehehe...

My sister Bae and Takayuki

Takayuki just woke up

Sleepy na

Playing si Takayuki

Tingin sa cam

HaPpY BiRtHdAy BaBy TaKaYuKi
We LoVe YoU!

Monday, September 1, 2008

How To: Choose A Good Partner

The best way to choose a good partner is using your emotional intelligence!

1. Sexual attraction is based on a primitive and powerful feeling that can "hijack" us.

It comes from the reptilian brain and is automatic and powerful because it relates to our survival. It is not, in itself, a reason to act or react. Don’t let yourself get "hijacked." Take a second look; get up to your limbic brain (bonding, parenting, relationships) and your neocortex (thinking)for this important decision. More on this later.

2. Touching is very important to our mental and physical health.

Choose a partner who is affectionate, who likes to touch you and be touched.

3. Most communication is nonverbal.

Choose a partner who looks at you with affection and kindness in their eyes. Emotions are contagious and largely transmitted through the eyes!

4. Think as well as feel your way through this decision.

Emotional intelligence means using all 3 of your brains -- including the neocortex, the thinking brain. Contrary to what some people think, EQ doesn't mean "only emotions." It means thinking as well as feeling. Consider compatibility -- family background, values, goals, how he or she takes care of their physical and mental health. Consider general living style. The find-a-roommate-site asks just a few questions. Among them are -- drug use, when you like to get up and go to bed, your level of neatness, and how quiet you like it to be. Pay attention. You’ll be living with this person. Do use your intuition. It's a strong guide. Take advantage of it. If you need to develop your intuition, work with an EQ Coach or Intuition coach.

5. Consider the emotional self-awareness of your partner, and their awareness of your emotions; their ability at empathy.

Studies show that one of the most predictive traits for compatibility is if one partner is able to sense the sadness of the other.

6. How optimistic is this person ?

Optimism is the facilitator of all the emotional intelligence competencies. In addition, optimists live longer, enjoy better health, heal more quickly, and accomplish more. Emotions are contagious, and optimism is a forcefield you want in your life. It can be learned.

7. Be intentional and expect it in your partner.

Intentionality is an EQ competency that means saying what you mean and meaning what you say. It also means being accountable for the motives behind your actions. You’ll need to be in touch with this yourself, and have a partner who is as well, because partnering requires a commitment, i.e., Intentionality. Intentionality means you’re not "allowed" to say, "I didn’t mean to ..." High-level skill. Good one to look for.

8. Consider the level of your intended partner’s resilience.

You’ll be together a long time, through ups and downs, and life can throw some curves. How do they manage adverse events and setbacks? Do they bounce back eventually? Have they been able to grow through adversity, not just go through it?

9. How do you and your partner manage anger--your own anger and that of the other?

Studies show that the most successful couples are those who are able to soothe one another instead of agitating and escalating in an argument.

10. How balanced is their life?

Do they combine learning, working and leisure? Studies show that people who die in their 5th and 6th decade have this life trajectory: school, then work, then leisure. Resilient seniors combine all three during all stages of life. You'll want the one you love to be around a long time!


Side A is one of my favorite OPM band, and this song entitled "Till" is the one I love most among their songs. Here it goes and I hope you'll like it! Enjoy listening!

We've been together
For quite sometime now
And you still shine in my eyes

I searched all my life
'Cause in my heart I knew
I'd find someone like you

And if I could live (Cause if I could live)
My life all over again
It would still be with you
No one else
Can offer you a heart so true
No one else
Can love you like I do

'Till the sun fails to shine
'Till the clock runs out of time
I will still be in love with you
'Till the moon and the stars
Fail to brighten up the night
I'll still be inlove with you

La, la, la ('till all the seas run dry)
La, la, la ('till flowers touch the sky)

I can see my tomorrow's
In the palm of your hand
There's only you and I

We'll hold forever
And know we will never
Lose the love that we have

(Repeat Refrain, Chorus and Bridge 2x)

.....I'll still be loving you